If we were to think of our sensuality as pie and divide it into let’s say 8 pieces, “performing” would probably take up one piece. Yes, we can all turn “it” on when we want to but we also need to know that there’s deeper experience to our sensuality that goes beyond the external validation.
I see ya’ll (especially my mamas) look up in sheer exhaustion at the idea of wearing lingerie or taking a sensual dance class sometimes.
And I get it. Your to do list is already a mile high and the idea of adding “Be tempting and sexually available after you spent 8 hours with a feverish 2 year old” doesn’t really make for feeling very much in the mood for any type of contact let alone sex.
The way we’ve been packaged and sold our sensuality over the course of forever makes the idea of tapping into that energy sound draining from the jump. “What’s in it for me?” I hear often. The last thing I want anyone to feel coming to this work is like there’s additional labor that’s required in order to “tap into your sensuality”.
When we tap into our sensual essence we tap into one of our greatest strengths. We pour back into the vessel so we aren’t continuously giving or overextending from an empty cup. We prioritize our sensuality as a pathway back to feeling luminous and radiant. How might finding to slow down or integrate more pleasurable experiences help you feel more connected to your body or more calm in your day to day life? .
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